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#Newtown family, massacre survivors lose everything when fire destroys their home, kills pets

 (AP Photo/The News-Times, Tyler Sizemore)

(AP Photo/The News-Times, Tyler Sizemore)

Damn damn damn, how much more can these families take? The New York Post is reporting that one of the Newtown, Connecticut families whose two young children were lucky enough to survive the horrific Sandy Hook Elementary School massacre has endured yet another devastating tragedy.

A fire destroyed their home:

Barth, his wife Audra and their three children lost everything in the Wednesday afternoon blaze, including their 5-year-old Chihuahua and several baby chickens.

The Barths’ children — including 7-year-old Peter, who survived the massacre with his classmates in a locked school bathroom — were “pretty shaken” by the blaze, Hans Barth said.

Thankfully, nobody was home when the fire broke out, but Hans Barth came home from running errands only to find his street closed off, his house on fire, and fire trucks at the scene. They wouldn’t let him through.

Nothing in the house could be salvaged, and for now, the Barth family is living in a motel.

Whatever happens, the Barths plan to stay in the neighborhood.

“Our kids have been through a lot. To tear them out of their home now it would be the worst thing we could do,” Audra Barth said.

From what the Post article suggests, the family’s attitude about this new heartbreaker is remarkably positive and forward-thinking. I’d be curled up in a ball under the motel bed uncontrollably sobbing, “Why US?” The Barths deserve a medal and nothing but good fortune and emotional security for the rest of their lives.

Per the News-Times of Danbury, people willing to donate clothing or toiletries can contact Wilford at thewilfordfamily@gmail.com, or donate to the Barth Family Fund at http://www.gofundme.com/2fns60.

VIDEO: “A needed response to the Steubenville rapists… or any rapists out there.”

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Today while I was on with Nicole Sandler doing my weekly radio spot, she ended the show with this must-see PSA aimed at teenage boys on what to do with a girl who’s passed out on your couch.

I had never seen it, and immediately teared up. What a simple and perfect message about respect and compassion:

Samantha Stendal:

To the Steubenville rapists…or any rapists out there.

It was posted on March 22, and already has 1,282,067 views.

Check out this comment that was posted under the video on YouTube:

Madd Lawgick:

This society has far more misandric beliefs then it does misogynist beliefs at this point. The man hating is at a ridiculous level in every aspect from elementary school to Prison sentences.

“real” Feminist always claim to be fighting for the rights of both genders but you NEVER see this in action. In actions all you see is feminist trying to gain more and more PRIVILEGES(not rights) for women and ignoring an issues dealing with men.

The radfems are heading the Feminists movement now.

Yeah, we “radfems” hate men so much that we try to prevent and cope with the devastation of rape. 

Melissa Harris-Perry must be trying so hard to “gain more PRIVILEGES” that she showed all kinds of compassion to rape survivors, having been one herself. She’s clearly “ignoring all those issues dealing with men,” those poor men who brutally abuse women, when she said to the Steubenville survivor, you “are not alone. We have failed you. I believe in you.”

What a radfem.

VIDEO: Melissa Harris-Perry to 16-year-old Steubenville rape survivor: You “are not alone. We have failed you. I believe in you.”

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This is a must-see video.

I choked up right along with Melissa Harris-Perry (@MHarrisPerry) as she poured her heart out to the 16-year-old Steubenville rape victim who has been ridiculed and bullied after having suffered a devastating trauma that will affect her the rest of her life. This was as excruciating to watch as it was cathartic, as it was uplifting.

Melissa was speaking from experience, she was heartfelt and painfully empathetic, caring, loving, eloquent… and classy:

“I’m sorry. We have failed to teach your male peers that they heave no right to touch you without your consent. Or to use you to meet their needs. Or to discard you if your victimization does not fit their life plan.”

“I am sorry we have failed you.”

“…54% of survivors never report the assault. It’s the reason I kept my secret for nearly a decade. But not you, beloved.”

“You demanded the right to be heard.”

“You knew just how relentlessly they would try to silence you, and you knew that neighbors and friends and even members of the national media would mourn the loss of your attackers’ football careers more than the loss of your innocence.”

But you spoke out anyway… You spoke for my 14-year-old-self…”

This is me saying, ‘I BELIEVE YOU.”

” I don’t need to know your name, but I need you to know you’re not alone.”

“You will continue surviving, and if you ever get down, if you ever wonder how you’re gonna go on, take out this letter, because I BELIEVE YOU.

If this report is true, I will cancel my subscription to the L.A. Times

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In November 2012, I wrote BIG problem: Former News Corp. exec expected to head Tribune Co., Rupert Murdoch eyes LA Times, Chicago Tribune.

Thankfully, that didn’t happen, but something else did. Things just got worse.

Dear L.A. Times,

If you do what the report below says you may do, we will cancel our subscription, and we will suggest to everybody we know that they cancel theirs.

Sincerely,

Laffy

Via Think Progress:

Right-wing funders and business industrialists David and Charles Koch may purchase the Tribune Company newspapers, which include the Chicago Tribune, Baltimore Sun, and the Los Angeles Times. The brothers are “interested in the clout they could gain through the Times’ editorial pages,” the Hollywood Reporter notes.

Because, you know, the Koch brothers just don’t have enough clout.

Via daromano

As I said back in November, feel free to contact the L.A. Times with a letter to the editor or their “convenient comment form.” For questions about journalistic standards, practices and accuracy, contact the Readers’ Representative Office by e-mail, phone (877) 554-4000 or fax (213) 237-3535.

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VIDEO: President Obama, in tears, speaks on Connecticut school shooting massacre

“We’re going to have to come together and take meaningful action to prevent more tragedies like this regardless of the politics.”

Please also read Lockdown: My son’s personal account, and today another one amid shooting at a grade school.

BIG problem: Former News Corp. exec expected to head Tribune Co., Rupert Murdoch eyes LA Times, Chicago Tribune

UPDATE:

And he actually tweeted this, too:

 

I’m heartsick. I am watching the painful demise of my home paper, the L.A. Times, the paper I’ve subscribed to for decades, the paper I insist on holding in my hands the old fashioned way as I read it daily, blurry-eyed, as I emerge from my early-morning comatose state, the paper I rely on to bring you stories that I can’t find anywhere else, the paper from which I share excellent letters to the editor to post on this blog, the paper that, for the most part, provides thorough and fairly even-handed news coverage.

And now, as my stomach sinks to the floor, as my mouth goes dry and tears start forming in my still-blurry eyes, I’m reading in my morning L.A. Times that Peter Liguori, a former top executive at News Corp. is expected to be named chief executive of Tribune Co… and that Tribune’s new owners could very well sell the Times and the Chicago Tribune.

And who wants to buy them? None other than the media’s sleaziest right wing hackmeister, Rupert Murdoch. He’s been dying to buy both papers for some time now. And despite occasionally reading about his greedy, nasty little desire, I never thought it would really happen.

As for Liguori, he’s an adviser to the private equity firm Carlyle Group (remember them?) and held senior programming positions at News Corp.’s Fox Broadcasting, among other networks. Of course, News Corp. also has its conservative grip on the Wall Street Journal and the New York Post.

Welcome to my nightmare.

L.A. Times:

Liguori is in advanced conversations with incoming owners, according to people who requested anonymity. An official announcement is expected after Tribune emerges from bankruptcy and names a new board of directors, which could occur as early as next month. [...]

The FCC’s staff issued the waivers of its so-called cross-ownership rules, which restrict newspapers from combining with television and radio stations in the same market.

The waivers cover Tribune newspaper and broadcasting units in Los Angeles, Chicago, New York, South Florida and Hartford, Conn. [...]

Tribune, which has been in bankruptcy for almost four years, owns the Los Angeles Times and KTLA-TV Channel 5 in Los Angeles, along with the Chicago Tribune, WGN radio and television stations and other newspapers and television stations throughout the country. The 23 TV stations are considered the most valuable part of the company.

Needless to say, should this go through, I will no longer be a subscriber.

Feel free to contact the L.A. Times with a letter to the editor or their “convenient comment form.” For questions about journalistic standards, practices and accuracy, contact the Readers’ Representative Office by e-mail, phone (877) 554-4000 or fax (213) 237-3535.

To make matters worse, here’s what John Dean tweeted earlier:

Hope we’re not on a dying planet called Twitter: http://daltoncaldwell.com/twitter-is-pivoting

VIDEO– Tearful President Obama thanks staff: “I’m really proud of all of you.”

A great way to end the day. Enjoy.

Thank you. This is your victory.