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Phone number on domestic violence, sexual assault victims’ rights pamphlet went to sex hotline

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Florida law enforcement officials are saying that a 24-hour help line phone number on  pamphlets that were handed out to domestic violence and sexual assault victims accidentally ended up leading to a sex hotline. As of now, nobody quite knows how this came about, but they’re calling it a “clerical error.”

Via Taegan and WKMG-TV:

LAKE COUNTY, Fla. – The victims’ rights pamphlet handed out by deputies offers an 800 number that connects callers to a recorded message that says, “Welcome to America’s hottest talk line. Ladies, to talk to interesting and exciting guys free, press 1 now. Guys, hot ladies are waiting to talk to you.”

The video at the link shows a reporter holding up the pamphlet saying that “nobody bothered to check this number…to make sure it is correct.” The sheriff’s office apparently had printed that number on the flyer for years, but for some reason it was only just discovered.

Whoa.

Ordinarily my first impulse would be to poke fun at such a dumb mistake, but then I read the words “victims’ rights” in the headline, watched the video, and read the details. It isn’t funny to those who have been at the receiving end of abuse.

I’ve actually been one of those people, but that was a lifetime ago. When the wounds are more recent, it’s hard to laugh, or even smile, at much of anything. My heart goes out to every one of them.

Cardinal Mahony used cemetery money to pay sex abuse settlement. “They took it from people who had no voice: the dead. They can’t react.”

family values my ass

Another day, more hypocrisy to report. Specifically, more hypocrisy from Cardinal Roger Mahony. Even more specifically, more hypocrisy from Cardinal Roger Mahony and his involvement with covering up years of child abuse.

We now find out that Religious Roger took money intended to maintain cemeteries and redirected it to settling the horrific cases of child molestation. After all, thought he, $660-million is a lot of CYA money. Of course, he failed to disclose that after cashing in various investments, “the main asset liquidated was cemetery money.”

Details, schmetails.

Not exactly holier than thou. Not exactly doing unto others. Not exactly kosher.

Via a rather lengthy article in the L.A. Times:

Under his leadership in 2007, the Archdiocese of Los Angeles quietly appropriated $115 million from a cemetery maintenance fund and used it to help pay a landmark settlement with molestation victims.

The church did not inform relatives of the deceased that it had taken the money, which amounted to 88% of the fund. Families of those buried in church-owned cemeteries and interred in its mausoleums have contributed to a dedicated account for the perpetual care of graves, crypts and grounds since the 1890s.

Now for the highly frustrating answer to the question we’re all asking:

The church’s use of fund money appears to be legal. State law prohibits private cemeteries from touching the principal of their perpetual care funds and bars them from using the interest on those funds for anything other than maintenance. Those laws, however, do not apply to cemeteries run by religious organizations.

Maybe someone needs to rethink that exception.

Mary Dispenza, who received a 2006 settlement from the archdiocese over claims of molestation by her parish priest in the 1940s, said her great-uncle and great-aunt are buried in Calvary Cemetery in East L.A.

I think it’s very deceptive,” she said of the way the appropriation was handled. “And I think in a way they took it from people who had no voice: the dead. They can’t react, they can’t respond.

Family values my ass.

“These are our ‘moral leaders’ who protect pedophiles and berate nuns for their feminist ideas.”

roger mahony cartoon

As if any of us need any more frustration or heartbreak. Here we go again, via the L.A. Times: 

The release this week of a trove of internal church records showing a concerted effort to hide abuse from police triggered new demands from victims and church critics that Mahony and his advisors be held criminally accountable.

The Los Angeles County district attorney pledged to review all the files and evaluate them for criminal conduct, but legal experts consulted Tuesday said the reams of new documents were unlikely to lead to charges, let alone convictions.

A nearly insurmountable barrier is the statute of limitations, the experts said.

With that, here are today’s L.A. Times letters to the editor, because our voices matter:

Re “Mahony tried to conceal abuse,” Jan. 22

Profound thanks to The Times for its efforts to make public the truth regarding the protection of priests who abuse children. This is another deeply disturbing example of the protection of the organization — the Roman Catholic Church’s hierarchy — not the Catholic Church as the people of God.

This irresponsibility does not end with Cardinals Roger M. Mahony and Bernard Law (formerly of Boston), but the guilt is also that of Pope John Paul II and Pope Benedict XVI, who knew what was happening in the United States. These are our “moral leaders” who protect pedophiles and berate nuns for their feminist ideas.

Doris Isolini Nelson

Los Angeles

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What is more evil than physically violating children? The answer: focusing your efforts on shielding rather than prosecuting the perpetrators.

Mahony, former archbishop of Los Angeles, says he’s sorry. As the late Randy Pausch stated in his book “The Last Lecture”: “A good apology has three parts: 1. ‘I’m sorry’; 2. ‘It was my fault’ and 3. ‘How do I make it right?’ The last part tells about your sincerity.”

Mahony and his colleagues not only need to apologize for their unspeakable actions, they must also own them and spend the rest of their days making amends for the lives they shattered.

Cinnia Curran Finfer

Los Angeles

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Mahony’s claim that clergy weren’t legally required to report suspected child abuse until 1997, and, therefore, he was absolved from responsibility to do so, is staggeringly self-serving. It’s as if he’s saying, “It was other people’s job to report child sexual abuse,” with the implicit caveat that his responsibility was to protect the institution he served.

The fact that Thomas J. Curry, the auxiliary archbishop for Santa Barbara who was Mahony’s advisor on sex abuse cases, is still serving in the church tells me everything I need to know. The church still doesn’t understand the horror its priests perpetrated on the victims, the flock they purport to lead and protect.

Melonie Magruder

North Hollywood

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Although it was no shock to learn that Mahony concealed crimes against children, I was stopped in my tracks by his vacuous explanation that he did not report them because he did not know the names of the children. How pathetic.

Reporting crime is what good citizens do. Investigating those crimes and identifying victims is what good police do. If Mahony had reported as soon as he was aware of child abuse, many children would have been spared harm. Obviously, while Mahony was not a good archbishop, he was also not even a good citizen.

Los Angeles Archbishop Jose Gomez has a duty to denounce Mahony, strip him of all titles and remove him from any priestly function.

Jeannette Dreisbach

Palm Springs

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I find it interesting that an organization like the Roman Catholic Church, which in the past was overly zealous in persecuting those who had committed a “sin” (an offense against an imaginary being) to the point of mass murder, is equally zealous in protecting its own against prosecution for what those in authority know is a crime and merits secular punishment.

Paul J. Burke

Palmdale

family values my ass

Woman claims Trayvon Martin killer Zimmerman molested her for more than a decade, his family members “proud racists”

(AP Photo/Orlando Sentinel, Gary W. Green, Pool)

We’ll find out if George Zimmerman will be tried and/or convicted for shooting an unarmed teen named Trayvon Martin. We already know he’s gotten off to a bad start by misleading the court, leading the judge to say that Zimmerman was going to jump bail with other people’s money and “Trayvon Martin is the only male whose youth is relevant to this case.”

Now we have something else that may not play well in the court of public opinion, via HuffPo:

A woman with close ties to George Zimmerman and his family told investigators that members of Zimmerman’s family were boastfully proud racists and that for more than a decade Zimmerman sexually molested her.

“It started when I was six,” the woman told investigators during an interview on the morning of March 20. “We’d all lay in front of the TV and we had pillows and blankets and he would reach under the blankets and try to do things and I would try to push him off but he was bigger and stronger and older,” the woman said, audibly weeping in the Florida State Attorney’s Office interview recording released Monday. “It was in front of everybody and I don’t know how I didn’t say anything, I just didn’t know any better.”

This went on, allegedly, for 13 years, from when she was six years old until she was nineteen.

“It’s not just me that he did these things to,” she said. The witness said that she talked to another woman who she claims was also molested by Zimmerman, but would not come forward.

Several news sources are reporting that she is a relative of the Zimmermans.

The woman has also claimed that Zimmerman shot Trayvon Martin because he was black. She is the second person who suggested Zimmerman family members “harbored negative racial views.”

Since it’s important to use the word “allegedly” when discussing legal matters, let it be on the record that I am allegedly sickened.

HuffPo has audio of the witness here.

Video- Fox’s Liz Trotta On Sexual Assault In Military: “What Did They Expect? These People Are In Close Contact”

The f’ng cow has the nerve to call what happened to Lara Logan in Libya “getting felt up”. From Media Matters.

Never mind the gays, the military should be worried about the heteros


Never hear about this in the media, but those damn homos sure are going to f*** things up for everyone.

DENVER Sexual assault reports at the three U.S. military academies rose 64 percent in the 2009-10 academic year, but many more victims probably didn’t come forward, the Defense Department said Wednesday.

A total of 41 sexual assaults involving students were reported to authorities at West Point, the Naval Academy and the Air Force Academy in 2009-10, the department said in its annual report on sexual harassment and violence.

In the previous academic year, 25 were reported.

Officials point to a survey of students at the three academies taken last spring as well as statistics from the civilian population as indicators that the reported sexual assaults represent fewer than 10 percent of all types of unwanted sexual contact, ranging from fondling to intercourse.

It wasn’t immediately clear what percentage of the respondents had reported behavior that would qualify as a sexual assault.

Suspect in sex assault case got pardoned by Tim Pawlenty in 2008

Let me put it this way:

Cleared by a panel that included Gov. Tim Pawlenty, Jeremy Giefer is now accused of assaulting a second girl hundreds of times before and after he received his pardon.

I smell a problem in 2012, Tim:

Two years ago, Gov. Tim Pawlenty and two other officials pardoned Jeremy Giefer, who had served a short time in jail in the 1990s as a young man for having sex with a 14-year-old girlfriend whom he later married.

Blue Earth County prosecutors now say Giefer was sexually assaulting another young girl hundreds of times before and after he received his pardon.

The criminal charges filed against Giefer this month have drawn attention to the earlier pardon as Pawlenty weighs a possible run for president.

Pardoned:

Guilty: