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I don’t know how to thank you

i love you so much

For two full days my Twitter stream and TPC Comments under Final Dad Report: To the so, so many of you kind enough to ask and care have been been filled with your compassion and kindness, your often intimate stories, and your wishes, love, and tear-inducing words of comfort.

I am overwhelmed. I cannot thank all of you enough for caring and sharing your own personal experiences, sorrow, wisdom, optimism, advice, and empathy. I’ve read every single message, and even though there is simply no way I can respond individually to all of you, I can offer you this, a heartfelt post brimming over with profound gratitude.

Consider this a huge hug for every single one of you who took the time and emotional energy to send condolences and soothing notes, emails, tweets, IMs, and phone calls.

It feels like I have hundreds of close friends and family right here with me at all hours of the day and night, whenever I need you… whenever we need each other. I don’t know how to express my appreciation strongly enough, but just know you, every one of you, has made a difference.

I’m truly humbled and honored to be surrounded by such kindhearted friends, even though most of us have never met face to face. Please know it’s mutual, that you can count on me the way you’ve let me lean on you.

I wish I could do a better job of communicating how much you’ve helped. All I can do is repeat the same two words:

Thank you.

TPC holiday note to readers

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First things first: Paddy and I wish each and every one of you a safe, warm, happy holiday filled with love and yummies.

As for this week: Both of us are under the weather, so posting has been a little slower than usual the past few days.

As for me, I am going on yet another Big Road Trip (scroll… and yes, let’s hope it’s not a repeat of the one I had two years ago… and yes, our house is in good hands) to San Francisco with my family, so we all better get over our miserable colds quickly (all of us caught this sucker). Especially because I’m meeting up with some wonderful new, and long time, Twitter friends in SF, which makes me so happy!

I’ll try to post when I can, but I doubt it will be more than once or twice, because it’s not easy when I’m out and about. (My little notebook is a pain, plus I’m never sitting in one place long enough to write anything.)

Hence, I’ve invited a few people to sub for me, including David Garber, Andy Marquis, and Chris Lamb. Hopefully, they’ll be able to contribute while I’m gone.

So we will likely continue our lighter posting this week, given the time of year and both Paddy and me trying to recupe from our various sickitude.

Again, have a safe, warm, happy holiday week. Be good to Paddy and we’ll be back to our regular posting schedule after the first of the year.

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A heartfelt thank you

In many ways, this has been a tough year, both politically and personally. Leaving politics aside, since I covered that here, let’s concentrate on the personal.

All too many of us have emotional issues, health issues, family problems, money problems, you name it. And because we all understand all too well what it’s like to suffer from any one, or all, of those, then even temporary respites from those often excruciating tensions are even more precious.

Over the past three years or so, I’ve simultaneously had to deal with the declining health of my dad and my mother-in-law on the home front while contending with an ongoing and very intrusive situation with someone who has done his level best to destroy my online friendships and professional reputation.

The bad news is, my dad’s health will only continue to deteriorate, since tiny strokes forever damaged his motor skills and memory, while thankfully, his sharp wit remains intact. He’s still hilarious, even through his devastating ordeal. Again, those who have been there for me and offered their kindness, good wishes, advice, and caring have my eternal thanks.

The good news is, my kids and Mr. Laffy are doing well, as are most of my friends.

And on the Internet front, slowly but surely people are figuring out who this very disturbed “progressive” (and his very few remaining supporters)– who’s relentlessly written about me and others– really is  and are abandoning him and repudiating his (their) smears. Despite that, it’s been painful to observe, and so those who have supported me have my undying gratitude, as do those who have come forward to publicly acknowledge and apologize for their part in his still-ongoing rants.

Sometimes total strangers act like better friends than “real life” friends do, and that never ceases to amaze and hearten me.

To our wonderful readers who keep us going, who are generous with your time, encouragement, and your donations, we cannot begin to thank you enough.

To my buddies on Twitter who have helped me through the unpleasantness (including swatting away those pesky RWNJ trolls) over the years, you are angels and I appreciate you more than you can ever know. And thank you, Twitter pals, for your insights and political commentary, your very helpful links and personal stories, and of course, your jokes, even the groaners. Your voices really do matter.

And speaking of voices that really do matter, it’s nearly impossible to express my thanks to Rachel Maddow for what she does, how she does it, her humor, her genius for communicating and informing, and for the encouragement she has given me personally.

And to Nicole Sandler, Angie Coiro, Ed Schultz, Lizz Winstead, Lawrence O’Donnell, Melissa Harris-Perry, Chris Hayes, Martin Bashir, Ari Melber, Nina Turner, Joy Ann Reid, Keith Boykin, Rosie Perez, Catherine Crier, the Stephanie Miller Show, Jacki Schechner, Randi Rhodes, John Dean, Joan Walsh, Jonathan Capehart, Sally Kohn, Martha Plimpton, Thom Hartmann, the Occupy Movement, and so many others who I’m forgetting (for which I apologize), thank you for fighting for all the right causes and standing up for those whose voices are often ignored, and doing so with ferocity, fire, smarts, humor, and heart.

We need more progressive voices out there, so let’s make that happen. Then we can thank ourselves.

One more thing, one that I should have put right at the top: Nobody, but nobody, has a better partner in crime than I do. A big fat heartfelt thank you to Paddy.

A blog’s gotta do what a blog’s gotta do

PLEASE NOTE: Paddy’s under the weather today and won’t be around, so I’m on my own… and not only am I sleep-deprived, but to make this day just letter-perfect, my cable keeps going out. I’m expecting this to be a spotty posting day, so please bear with us. Thanks!

Okay… yes, it’s that time again. It’s fundraising time here at TPC. It’s a necessary evil, but a blog’s gotta do what a blog’s gotta do.

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“Obviously people with mental health issues shouldn’t own firearms.”

The comment below was posted under my earlier post Contrasting reactions to the Colorado shootings from Pres. Obama, GOP Rep. Louie Gohmert. It would have also been appropriate under Gun Violence and Our Dark Underside: 12 More Dead in Shooting Gallery America because it hits a few of the same points.

We should post this daily, along with Darcy Burner’s “An adult conversation about guns“.

Bolding is mine:

First off, Louie Gohmert is a moron.  His crazy religious BS talk makes me sick.

As to the shooting, it’s tragic.  It was probably also preventable on a number of levels. 

The shooter obviously has mental health issues.  There’s no way to commit an act like this without being a psychopath or suffering from some mental breakdown.  Had he made his plan known to anyone?  Had he hinted at it in a cry for help? Did he post on social media about his intent?  I’m sure we’ll find out in the weeks to come.

Obviously people with mental health issues shouldn’t own firearms.  That goes without saying. 

Could a security guard or an armed citizen have prevented this? Possibly.  Is the answer to arm everyone?  No, it’s not.

I’ll say it here first on my sister’s blog.  I believe we need tougher gun control in the form of a proactive screening process.  I’m not talking about phoning the ATF to see if a person has a criminal record.  I’m talking about testing.  Psychological and competency testing. 

In over 20 years as a firearms instructor I’ve encountered people that I refused to take on as students.  I made a decision based on their demeanor, their words and whether or not they gave me the willies.  Sadly, I’m sure they went down the road and took classes with someone who didn’t care about anything but the color of their money.

I teach people how to shoot pistols, shotguns and rifles.  Yes, I even teach them how to shoot the AR15.  Anyone who owns any firearm should train extensively.  Just having a gun makes you a marksman like owning a piano makes you a pianist.  I shoot between 5 and 7 thousand rounds a year.  The average police officer shoots less than one thousand rounds a year. 

Shooting in a situation like this isn’t only about the mechanics of shooting, it’s about mindset, personal responsibility and a host of other factors In short, probably less than 10% of people who have CCW licenses in any given state are truly qualified to carry a firearm. 

Tougher screening, rigorous and extensive checks and mandatory and thorough training are in order.

Just my 2 cents.

Chris

To our wonderful readers, a random moment of gratitude

Other than everyone ripping into President Obama for “slow growth” (I see the word “growth” as a positive, but hey, that’s just me), there’s a momentary lull in the news cycle.

So, I’d like to take this opportunity to thank our wonderful readers.

Everyone goes through tough times. Paddy sure has, I sure have, and you all have at one time or another. During those times, we feel vulnerable and even overwhelmed.

It’s times like those when we rely on friends and supporters to buck us up a little, or swoop in and offer a helping hand or offer a hug.

You guys do that for us day after day, week after week, year after year, and for that we thank you.

When we ask for donations to keep TPC alive, you’re there.

When trolls come around in Comments with outlandish, rude, disrespectful, or even abusive words, you cover for us and put them in their place with reason, measured outrage, and intelligent arguments.

When we have Moments of Happy, you’re there to celebrate with us.

When we make mistakes, typos, or get our facts wrong, you politely, and often with humor, correct and point us in the right direction with links or updated information.

When we get it right, you’re generous enough to give us kudos.

Paddy and I do this day after day, nearly 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 12 months a year. We rarely take breaks, and we occasionally get burnt out, cranky, feisty, or just plain silly. And there you are, riding it out with us, egging us on, and remaining loyal.

And so, since there was this little lull in the news day, I wanted to take a minute and let you know that we appreciate you beyond words.

Love,

Laffy

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See that screen grab above from our TPC right sidebar? See that tiny little rectangle with the number 10,001,427?  That’s the number of visitors The Political Carnival has had as of today. And for that, we thank you, our readers, with all our hearts.

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Without you, we wouldn’t exist. Thank you for helping us succeed and grow.

Love,

Laffy and Paddy

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Seriously, we’re giggling with disbelief. You know how we got here?

Thank you.