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Rep. King: All LGBT Is Self-Professed Behavior, Laws Protecting It Are Made For Pedophiles

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Ah, the LGBT life: unfortunates filled with public pain, abuse, ridicule, discrimination, beatings, and even murders. Wait. Maybe unfortunates is a poor choice of words. Masochists is more appropriate, according to Congressman Steve King (R - Iowa). It seems Dr. Steve believes homosexuality or sexual identity is a choice, just not a verifiable one. HuffPo:

Rep. Steve King (R-Iowa) defended Arizona’s recently vetoed anti-LGBT legislation on Sunday, arguing in part that homosexuality is a “self-professed behavior” that cannot be “independently verified."

“Although it’s clear in the civil rights section of the code that you can’t discriminate against people based upon -- and I’m not sure I have the list right -- race, creed, religion, color of skin," King said, "there’s nothing mentioned in there on self-professed behavior, and that’s what they’re trying to protect: special rights for self-professed behavior.”

I guess that means that most, if not all professed LGBT'ers are masochists. They love being discriminated against and ostracized. Just listen to King's own words. Count how many times King says, "self-professed behavior:"

Sexual orientation does not warrant constitutional protection because it cannot be “independently verified” and can be “willfully changed,” King contended.

See. It's a choice and we can just learn them gays and other queers to be straight. Just send them to Marcus "Mr. Michele" Bachmann. And King's insights and vast scientific knowledge on the LGBT life aren't new:

During the 2009 passage of the federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act -- which expanded the existing 1969 law to include crimes motivated by the victim’s sexual orientation, gender identity or disability -- King argued that the sexual orientation provision would provide pedophiles with special protections.

Ah yes, that very strong Washington pedophile lobby -- the leading firm there is Findem, Rapem & Abusem.

Money. Yup, and that's the reason Rep. Crazy made in arguing for the recent Arizona anti-gay (religious freedom) bill. By her vetoing it, Gov. Jan Brewer opened the door for the big fix. The big scam. What is that, you may be asking?

He [Rep. Steve King]  went on to suggest that anti-discrimination laws protecting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people could give those individuals the opportunity to trick businesses into discriminating against them with the intent of “setting up a case.”

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Well, at least now we know. When you're not being a pedophile, you're scamming the justice system with phony discrimination claims. This is all a money-making plot. Rep. King has officially set the record straight.

Thanks to him, I'm going out to get my LGBT membership card, put on a "Seinfeld puffy shirt," move to Georgia or Kansas where similar legislation to Arizona's is being considered and go sue somebody before it's too late. I want to be rich. I want to be part of the "1%" group. I wanna be gay!!!

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No Choice, Says Priest to Teacher -- You're Gay, Okay, You're Married, You're Fired

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Michael Griffin

Oh, those prickly Catholic priests, sticklers for the rules. Especially when you're the headmaster at a Catholic school. Rules are rules. There is no any choice.

Michael Griffin, an openly gay teacher the Holy Ghost Preparatory School, was fired from the Catholic institution he has worked at in Bensalem, Pennsylvania for the past 12 years. His crime? He applied for a marriage license. A same sex marriage to take place in New Jersey where it's legal.

Griffin who teaches French and Spanish, said his sexuality was no secret at the Bensalem school. As a matter of fact, he and his same-sex partner of 12 years had been dinner guests more than once at the home of the school president, Father James McCloskey. Everything was fine and dandy until the two gay men decided they wanted to sanctify their relationship with a legal marriage.

How does being legally married disqualify this teacher from being a good faculty member after being openly accepted for the past dozen years? The answer to that from the principal is simple: He has no choice.

No choice? That seems so convenient. Did he take into any consideration that Mr. Griffin has no choice either? His sexual identity isn't a choice. He didn't pick it up at school (coincidentally, he attended this same Holy Ghost Prep as a youth). If they believe sexuality is a choice, does it mean he learned to be gay at this Catholic school? If so, they have bigger problems there.

The sad thing is that by making his living conditions legal, this popular teacher is losing his job. For Holy Ghost Prep, it's okay to be homosexual and live outside the law, but try to bring love, decency and a marriage license into a relationship and the church is saying that's bad. No wonder Pope Francis has so many problems among his flock. Ignorance has pervaded many of their educational institutions.

Here's the story in video form. It's short but fills in some details. But you have the broad strokes of the failings of understanding at this Catholic institution. And I'm sure they're not alone. But what hypocrites this school is to welcome a good deserving teacher until he does something just and right. I guess you have to remove human emotion and tolerance for your fellow man/woman if you want to live by these limited tenets.

 

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Genderqueer — Neither Male Nor Female But An Androgynous Hybrid Or Rejection Of Both

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Genderqueer. I'd never heard that term before, but there's lots I've yet to learn.

The newish word is for members who describe themselves in terms such as agender, bigender, third gender or gender-fluid are requesting — and sometimes finding — linguistic recognition. At least that's what they're talking about at Mills College in California.

Yahoo News reports:

The weekly meetings of Mouthing Off!, a group for students at Mills College in Oakland, Calif., who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender, always start the same way. Members take turns going around the room saying their names and the personal pronouns they want others to use when referring to them — she, he or something else.

It's an exercise that might seem superfluous given that Mills, a small and leafy liberal arts school historically referred to as the Vassar of the West, only admits women as undergraduates. Yet increasingly, the "shes" and "hers" that dominate the introductions are keeping third-person company with "they," ''ze" and other neutral alternatives meant to convey a more generous notion of gender.

I actually think this is kind of cool, but at the same time a bit confusing. But then again, try to explain long division or the mating rituals of the American Prairie chicken and you'd loose a lot of people along the way too.

So suffice to say that today, the progressive thinking when it comes to pronouns is to let the individual choose what is most certainly not a selected choice for them -- their sexuality. Everybody is what they are, and that's how they should be referred to.

Take Bradley/Chelsea Manning as an example. We knew him as he. He knew himself as she. Now technically and correctly, she is a she. Unless of course, Manning should prefer to be called by the newer term, "ze."

That's right. Ze. Along with that one, students at Mills are allowed to assign themselves their preferred gender pronouns, known as PGPs. Becoming more and more familiar are such ones as ''sie," ''e," ''ou" and "ve." These have become an accepted practice for professors, dorm advisers, club sponsors, workshop leaders and health care providers at several schools.

So, please do everyone a favor. If you have a preference, feel free to make it known up front. Don't let us call you, her or him if you prefer another term. But also, don't take offense if it takes us a bit of getting used to. I think there are a lot of people like myself who, by the way is a he or him, and I'll stick with that for the time being, who will need a bit of time for the adjustment.

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Dear Amy -- Thank You For The Smartest Answer To The Stupidest Question

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I'm not much on advice columns but from time to time I catch a memorable response to a totally ridiculous question. Then I know why people make them part of their daily reading.

Here's the perfect example of what I'm talking about -- both in query and in reply. Kudo's to Amy Dickinson of the Chicago Tribune for nailing it from the start.

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WalkerWorld: Achievement gap between black and white Wisconsin students “unacceptably high”

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The LaCrosse Tribune is reporting on how things are going in Scott Walker World, specifically how fourth- and eighth-grade students are coming along.

The good news?

Wisconsin fourth- and eighth-graders are scoring at and above national averages in reading and math, according to results of the National Assessment of Educational Progress tests released Thursday...

The bad news?

... but the results also showed the state’s achievement gap is the highest of all 50 states.

Wisconsin’s gap [between black and white students] is the highest in each of the four areas tested among states, according to the NAEP testing data. [...]

The achievement gap between black and white Wisconsin students is “unacceptably high,” DPI said. Wisconsin’s black students’ average scores were some of the lowest in the country.

Gee, could it have anything to do with his budget funding school vouchers, charter schools "leaving public schools on life support"?

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You know who is really and truly pro-life? TX Dem gubernatorial candidate Wendy Davis.

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Wendy Davis

Via the Dallas Morning News, we get to see Texas Democratic gubernatorial candidate Wendy Davis turn the old "pro-life" talking point around on right wing, pro-forced birth activists. Take that!

Via Taegan, because the Dallas Morning News is subscription only:

"I am pro-life. I care about the life of every child: every child that goes to bed hungry, every child that goes to bed without a proper education, every child that goes to bed without being able to be a part of the Texas dream, every woman and man who worry about their children's future and their ability to provide for that future. I care about life and I have a record of fighting for people above all else."

As you may recall, Wendy Davis stood on her pink-sneakered feet for eleven hours filibustering fighting against this:

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I've used the images below over and over again in my posts to point out habitual GOP hypocrisy; they seem especially appropriate now:

Via .ecobumperstickers.com

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Wendy Davis is the true "right-to-lifer."

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Would Parents Have Deserted Son If He Had Cancer?

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I wish

I wish I was taller, stronger and had more hair. But I don't. I live with what I was given. And there are very few people who I've met who found my limitations (in my mind only) cause for ridicule or mockery. Oh, I've take a few short jokes, a few reseeding hairline quips, but nothing I couldn't handle. I can't remember ever being denied anything other than once, at the Eastern States Exposition when I was a kid, I wasn't tall enough to go on ride. My friends went. I just had to stand and watch. But I wasn't singled out for a random reason. It was a safety issue, and I understood that.

So my life has been a series of choices, based on reasonable logic. No one said "Hey shortie, you suck. Get off my property." Or "hey baldie, the toupee shop's at the other end of the mall." And even with my average looks, I've never been asked to leave Abercrombie & Fitch, though I surely don't fit the profile of the guys on their posters or shopping bags. Hey, we can all dream, right?

I have limitations that are not of my own making. Height. Looks. Middle-aged baldness. My sexuality is not a choice either. I was born heterosexual and am happily married with two kids. I didn't chose that life. It's who I am.

Nick kicked out of house

HUFFPO reports on an 18 year old boy named Nick who's life was turned upside down recently. He was a victim of ignorance, not his choices. Just because he discovered who he is inside, he now faces dire consequences doled out by his parents. Some anonymous person tipped them off that their son might be bisexual. It makes you wonder if he had been stricken with cancer if his family would have treated him the same way. Is human sexuality worse than cancer? Neither are a choice.

When Nick's parents found out their son was bisexual, they threw him out of the house, leaving his belongings on the front yard. They also confiscated all of his savings he earned bagging groceries as a part-time job while attending school. Although his parents did not support him, hundreds of strangers have rallied around the homeless, penniless 18-year-old to offer their support. So far they managed to raise thousands of dollars.

Nick is who he his, not who he chose to me. Becoming a lawyer or an engineer might be something he picks to do, but what he's made of mentally and emotionally, who and what he desires, is outside of that realm choice.

Two things amaze me about this story. First, that one day his "loving" parents accept him, then the next they shun him, literally tossing him to the curb. That hurts to hear. It makes you wonder what kind of folks they really are. After 18 years and no reported problems within his household which includes three sisters, it's rumors of his sexuality that cause his father and step-mother to discard him like stale fish?

The second facet of this event is the outpouring of love and support Nick has received from friends and mostly strangers. This travesty is turning into a cause. The awareness of other torn individuals, of any age, 12 or 82, to come out and just accept themselves and the hand that life has dealt them is uplifting.

Sadly there are the narrow minded among us who don't let love and family rule over bias and bigotry. I certainly don't hate Nick's parents. I don't know them. But Nick does. And when the shock of his displacement sets in, hopefully the outpouring of love and compassion he's receiving will far outweigh any ill thoughts he may have for them.

I know my gay friends always feared their coming out. Yet once they did, they had, for the most part, gained acceptance. Maybe not immediately, but over time. And they were happier for it.

Good luck Nick. Just because you may have discovered you're the "B" in LGBT, you deserve to be happy. We all do. I hope you find it.

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